Reply to Sharde:---You need to get yourself into the DSHS office and apply for anything and everything you can. If your not working you should be able to qualify for money, food stamps, medical and they can tell you where to go to get help with your energy bill. They can also sign you up for WIC which will get you several gallons of milk a month as well as cheese, formula and cereal and this is every month. As far as that loser sperm donor leaving you because he thought you got to fat Welllll,--you just tell the people at welfare that he is the legal father and they will do the rest, if he doesn't come through with child support every month he could very well go to jail and if he does have a legitimate job and doesn't pay you every month the courts will garnish his paycheck. I don't think he had any intentions of staying with you dear, he used your weight gain as an excuse to run away from his responsibilitys. Once he's hit with a child support order I don't think he will give your weight a second thought. It is so easy for guys to shack up and promise to be true forever and always be there for their babies. But once it gets close to really happening they run like scared rats so don't you hesitate to go after him with everything you've got and never let him off the hook. You should get to the welfare office asap so you can get help with your electric. Good luck my friend--sincerely sheshe030